Sometimes we just have to make our loved ones feel needed.
Not just loved and appreciated...but really needed....like we couldn't manage without them..even though we know we could...hmm....
Maybe we'd be lonely...maybe we'd struggle...but the morning would still dawn and night would still blacken the sky.
The relationship between me and my mother is not on affectionate terms but I am sure that when she looked at me she can see into my soul.
Sometimes she astonished me how she pick my thoughts.
Though I am not at all romantic with my mother...I never sit besides her…she never allowed me to make joke with her…I dare to laugh in front of her…but it doesn’t matter.
She makes me feel better whenever she looks at me or listen to me when I am disturbed.
She's there for me and I'm there for her…and while we share our lives together...we will continue to make each other feel special.
I'm all for equality in a relationship though I wouldn't consider myself an accomplished person....hmm...not at all.
I prefer my mother to treat me with respect and remember that I'm just as capable as any of her other children are...hmm….okay okay…maybe not…but at least I try.
She sees me struggling with my clothes which no longer fit and offers to amend them;
she sees me trying to cook something delicate and offers to cook it for me;
she choose cloth’s color for me;
instruct tailor for me.
The little things in life mean so much...they're what makes a relationship work.
There are times when I ask her to let me know how to cook some blah blah dish…when and how invite people in my house…what to wear in a party and how to manage my In-Laws...such a small gesture makes her feel really needed in my life.
My Mother is one of the best…great woman I ever met in my life…so far....hmmm....
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