A wise man once said that if you're fat...hmm...surround yourself with people who are even fatter and you'll look thin by comparison.
This works for people who are any kind of extreme in appearance.
If you're tall....hang out with taller people.
Or if you're short...hang out with smaller people.
Dark skin...light skin...any color skin....really.
If you've got green skin...find a freaking Martian to stand next to....and you'll look less green.
Sounds crazy...right?
But there are times when I want to change my group…hmm...
I want to be what I am not…I really mean it…its like hanging with people who are not like me but I want to look like them and somehow after few days or months I would start looking like them.
It would be like people suddenly forget my past and start taking me as the bunch of people I am hanging with and never ever tells my truth on my face.
Its like changing my blood group…its like changing my whole identity…my name…my face…my appearances and the way I carry my self.
Because TRUTH...especially when it is about YOU…is no fun.
I want to get rid of the days I spend with someone…the time I gave him…the words we spoke and the feelings for which I spent hours of hours to explain to him and he never ever regard them…
I want to change the way I was with him and since than its became my habit….being HUMBLE….being neglected...being ignored…being unwanted…being preset all the time but unseen…that is the way I never was once I was not in his life…
But getting rid of what I really am even if I hang around with different people or not my type of people is impossible.
Everyone...I mean everyone some how see my face and get a que about my past…they start talking about it like they have been actually there watching me run over by him…or they actually have witnessed the incident.
And whenever it happened and it happens often I think of the Wise Man’s wording but does his wording goes with my requirements too?
Perhaps...Wise Man was not that Wise after all..hmm... !
This works for people who are any kind of extreme in appearance.
If you're tall....hang out with taller people.
Or if you're short...hang out with smaller people.
Dark skin...light skin...any color skin....really.
If you've got green skin...find a freaking Martian to stand next to....and you'll look less green.
Sounds crazy...right?
But there are times when I want to change my group…hmm...
I want to be what I am not…I really mean it…its like hanging with people who are not like me but I want to look like them and somehow after few days or months I would start looking like them.
It would be like people suddenly forget my past and start taking me as the bunch of people I am hanging with and never ever tells my truth on my face.
Its like changing my blood group…its like changing my whole identity…my name…my face…my appearances and the way I carry my self.
Because TRUTH...especially when it is about YOU…is no fun.
I want to get rid of the days I spend with someone…the time I gave him…the words we spoke and the feelings for which I spent hours of hours to explain to him and he never ever regard them…
I want to change the way I was with him and since than its became my habit….being HUMBLE….being neglected...being ignored…being unwanted…being preset all the time but unseen…that is the way I never was once I was not in his life…
But getting rid of what I really am even if I hang around with different people or not my type of people is impossible.
Everyone...I mean everyone some how see my face and get a que about my past…they start talking about it like they have been actually there watching me run over by him…or they actually have witnessed the incident.
And whenever it happened and it happens often I think of the Wise Man’s wording but does his wording goes with my requirements too?
Perhaps...Wise Man was not that Wise after all..hmm... !
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ReplyDeleteLife on the planet Earth remains a game for the fool, a comedy for the rich, a tragedy for the poor, and the poor becomes old sooner than becoming wise enough to figure out what’s is really wrong.
_______________________Some sayings:
“It is always wise to look ahead, but difficult to look further than you can see.” (Winston Churchill)
“Self-pity is our worst enemy and if we yield to it, we can never do anything wise in this world.” (Helen Keller)
Most of the people goes through the same situation...but getting rid of what you really are is not the solution...may be wise man was not that wise but you can be wise enough by movinng on...love Almighty...jiski mohabbat duniya ki tamam mohabbaton se afzal hai..!!
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